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Caledonia, Northern Illinois, United States
I am a Thirty-Something mother of four beautiful girls. My love for them, and the joy I've experienced during this crazy ride called motherhood, has inspired me to help make the dream of a family become a reality for couples through gestational surrogacy. I've proudly helped A&T, as their lives were forever changed when they welcomed a son in April 2010 and K&S were blessed as parents in Sept 2012 when we welcomed their twin boys. I completed my final surrogacy journey Nov 2015 when I helped a wonderful local couple J&W and Big Brother add their family with the birth of twin boys. I am so very fortunate to have wonderful relationships with each one of my surro-families and continue to share in their lives.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

A Dream (Surrogacy Poem)

by Lain

Our friendship started differently,
Than most friendships I've had.
We had to search each other out,
because of something sad.

A precious child to fill your hearts,
Is what you're longing for.
Infertility has made it hard,
to open up that door.

And so a search began for you,
to find a helping heart.
So similar to my own search,
not knowing where to start.

For me, the search is special,
it requires such great care.
A couple to have a child...
the fruit my search must bare.

Now we've found each other,
so much more real it seems.
Through faith and hope and honesty,
we're moving toward your dream.

But the dream we have,
it is the same, a dream that's filled with firsts.
First smiles, first laughs, first steps, first words.
All starting with a birth.

Often times I find myself wondering what it's like,
to have to trust a stranger with such a precious life.
And though I can't imagine,all that you've been through,
I hope you know I'll do my best to bring a child to you.

Surrogacy is something not everyone can do.
But I've been so blessed in my life,
I'm drawn to helping you.
Some people call us Angels, us surro-moms to be.
But I don't feel angelic, I just feel like me.

Our journey is just starting,
and no one knows the end.
I pray it brings to you a child,
and brings to me a friend.


Anonymous said...

Thanks, I needed to cry today! You're just so much more special than you give yourself credit for. ag

Dani said...

Tiffany, you inspire me - however, we both know I am far too selfish to do what you're doing - I admire you for it more than you know!!!!

SurroMom said...

This is beautiful! Did you write this??? Awesome. I love it.

Kim said...

Wow. Maybe it's the hormones, or maybe just where we're at, but this brought some tears to my eyes. Can I share this?

Tiffany said...

Absolutely Kim. :)

Kim said...

Thanks Tiffany!
Got our "official" results today - BFN, which we were expecting. Was reading your blog last night, and got so much hope and encouragement from it, seeing your journey and the amazing outcomes you've had despite the bumps along the way and failed cycles. It gave me hope for the future, and helped me to put some perspective to things and keep optimistic. Thanks for sharing your journey!